Desire and Fear

We are bound by fear to our Objects and fantasies of Other and Self as much as by desire and there is a complex logical undercurrent and rationale to the ways that we (enigmatically) encrypt aversion into attraction and revulsion or death into fertility and life.

Eros and Thanatos

...most of us blunder our way through the world (at least, but not solely - emotionally) from one disaster to another. We seek that Other that is only ever going to be superficially "right" for us because at some deep level of awareness we know that our very essential nature and psychological being requires dissonance and discontinuity to continue to exist...